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Managing emotions – your key to success

I’ve just got back from a magisterial few days in Las Vegas.

it’s a totally incredible place, in case you haven’t been there. In fact it’s really difficult to describe it if you haven’t been there – it’s like aliens landed and designed this absolutely way out place that’s like some sort of fantasy put into realism.

And Vegas – it is not just about gambling, it’s also an fantabulous place for shows, food and incredible hotels – for excellent value.

Whilst I was there I was totally fascinated by why people would sit for hours and hours on slot machines. I mean at least with some of the play tables it’s not just about luck, but the slot machines – that is surely about luck?

 Although, saying that, some time ago I trained as a Firewalk teacher with Tolly Burkan, one part of the training involved going to a gambling casino and using the slot machines as a biofeedback device to channel out negative emotions. He had a philosophy that human emotions might work on electronic devices – it is the case that apparently some research has indicated this as a possibility. So that’s all about that you have to pick a machine you ‘feel’ is ready to pay out and then give it a go. If you it’s not a win, you have to consider about any negative emotions you are holding onto and let go of them before having another go – it’s as basic as that!

I don’t know if it is very the case, but it is a excellent way to become conscious of any negative emotions you’re holding onto and releasing them. And the strange thing was that in a group of about 20 people nobody lost any money and a couple of people made some hundred dollars!

Well it is the same in business, negative emotions can completely get in the way of getting outstanding results. And if that’s the case, then letting go of interfering negative emotions is the real way to create excellent wins!

For example, I work many with people devising presentations – although they will have an excellent presentation designed, they often give a completely presentation when they deliver it!

How come?

Well it’s about negative emotions – fear, anxiety, stress. All these a thing – that’s going to interfere with giving an excellent performance.

If you’re feeling afraid and you start to give your presentation, it’s totally going to get in the way of doing an excellent job, isn’t it?

In a similar way, if it’s excellence in getting results in business, it’s stress which is going to get in the way. I had a client who was an brilliant stock market trader – he loved his job, but one day woke up and just had enough! The stress built up over time and that’s the thing that abruptly drove him over the edge.

Unfortunately it is often that we’re unwitting of the impact of the negative emotions until it is too late.

But it’s that aware ness that can save us.

For me, I found NLP is the way to become aware of negative emotions and release them to get good results.

NLP training is the key to brilliant business because as you learn NLP you master your emotions and therefore your life!

 

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